Second Chances
Sometimes we get them, sometimes we don't. Are they deserved? Should we expect them?
I think that in life we have one chance to get things right. If we mess up and make the wrong choices and decisions we have to live with them. Learn from them and don't make them again.
You should always be forgiven and you should always forgive.
I am not talking about being forgiven. You should always be forgiven and you should always forgive. People need a chance to go back and fix things, make things right, but should they be given a second chance? Have you really learned your lesson if you have the ability to start all over and pretend it never happened?
Cause that is what getting a second chance is, right? Starting over and pretending that the things we did, said, screwed up never happened. Isn't this just erasing the past? If so then how are we to learn from it, if we are suppose to forget about it and pretend it never happened.
Have you ever been given a second chance? Have you ever given someone a second chance? If so did it work, where you able to move on as if it never occurred? Did you learn anything from it?

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mel
11.11.04 8:31 AM
"People need a chance to go back and fix things, make things right, but should they be given a second chance?"
You contradicted yourself. Second chances are important in life. If there weren't second, third, fourth, thirtieth chances, then many of the 'luxuries' in life that we adore would not be here. Cell phones, computers, cars, clothes, houses, hospitals, stores, etc. The people and the thinking that went into creating all those and many more wonderful things came about after several 'chance' encounters and experiments. Hel the most basic element, electric power, came about because one guy was determined to give his idea another chance...his first several hundred attempts weren't working. Just imgine if he had been given one chance to get it all right. Suckage.
You are speaking more of granting second chances based on circumstances and even then, depending on the severity of the event, there is nothing wrong with extending open arms and a bit of faith to trust the individual or entity to do the right thing the next time. It's about trust my friend. The real question is, how much trust do you have in others?
Michael Hagel
11.11.04 8:56 AM
I was more referring more to second chances based on human actions not really on one's ideas. Cause I defiantly see your point in second chances on ideas.
I have talked about this with more and more people over the the last few days and the overall response was "Fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me."
So in the end I guess you are right, it all comes down to trust! Do you trust in that person, that entity, and most importantly in yourself to make the right decision and not be "fooled again."
Mary Mallari
03.27.07 3:30 PM
I believe everyone deserves not just a second chance but as many oppurtunities as possible to learn from their past actions and mistakes. Sometimes people don't even realize they are even hurting anyone by what they say or do and if they do they are just not informed well enough of certain situations.
Anyone can make the same mistakes a million times, but just as long as a person is trying is all that I feel is important to make life splendid.
I feel I deserve a second chance in many things, and that learning from my mistakes is probably harder than not making them again, but is always worth more than not trying at all.
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